CHANGE- The most hated thing around us...

People do not like change...nobody likes it...WHY?

Change disrupts life, it causes upheaval, it turns life topsy-turvy and it makes us leave our COMFORT ZONE. So, why should we change or embrace change? This is the million dollar question and most certainly a person needs to be sure, persuaded logically to change not just because you and I say it. Well, life changes everyday as we move on. Aren't we growing older and wiser or otherwise?

It is necessary to change as it is the law of life, it is the essence of life. We live in a world of unprecedented changes where if we don't change life passes by. It is important to understand the stages of change.

Stage I- You are unable to accept as it has suddenly come up but life is like that only. Things don't always happen as per our expectations, therefore, one must cultivate a flexible mindset and be ready to take life's challenges as they are thrown at us. the people who adapt to change are the ones who are happy. We have to move with the times. The best example is how the teachers have taken up technology like a fish to water.

Stage II-

We are emotional beings so, anything that happens makes us very emotional. We think from different angles and there's an emotional upheaval too. It is a stage that too passes away after sometime but initially it has a strong impact on our thinking and behaviour.

Stage III- We come to accept change after much ponderings and musings. Well, it is equally important to weigh and judge the pros and cons of a given change; one cannot and should not embrace anything blindly. So, finally, after careful weighing, we decide that it's time to change.

Stage IV- At this stage we move ahead with the change but one must see that you don't become a 'Hamlet'. He was a Prince in one of the Shakespearean plays who wasted a lot of time in indecision...'To be or not to be...' is a famous monologue. To embrace change you have to be quick in undergoing the stages mentioned above. There's no point if we are too late so, remember TIME is of essence here.

HAPPY CHANGE!